{"id":3712,"date":"2020-08-27T10:23:26","date_gmt":"2020-08-27T04:53:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/?p=3712"},"modified":"2026-02-02T15:31:36","modified_gmt":"2026-02-02T10:01:36","slug":"menopause-and-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/menopause-and-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Menopause doesn\u2019t have to be the end of great sex"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">\u201cI thought having reached this point in my life \u2014 empty nest, career success or retirement \u2014 my partner and I could enjoy intimacy in a new, more leisurely way. But my body has betrayed me!\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">This is the story of most women who are experiencing <a href=\"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/perimenopause-the-transition-explained\/\">perimenopause<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/menarche-menopause-journey-uterus\/\">menopause<\/a>.\u00a0Menopause is a big deal! It\u2019s not a disease but a physiological change and definitely, a game changer. When physiology changes, you don&#8217;t feel the same anymore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">As menopause approaches, there is decline in female <a href=\"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/how-to-combat-hormonal-imbalance-and-emotional-roller-coasters\/\">hormones<\/a> i.e. estrogen and progesterone, which produce both physical and emotional\u00a0 changes and can directly affect the sex life . The most common problems which we address are about pain during <a href=\"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/sex-during-your-period-all-you-need-to-know\/\">sex<\/a>, loss of <a href=\"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/how-to-naturally-boost-your-libido\/\">libido<\/a>, and inability to achieve orgasm even if you are with the man of your dreams.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">All these problems happen due to decreasing blood supply to the vulva and vagina which causes thinning of vaginal lining and decreased lubrication.The vulval and vaginal tissue lose their elasticity and vaginal length becomes shorter. All these factors cause pain, soreness, itching and burning.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">Fluctuating hormones affect emotional wellbeing and cause complete emotional turmoil, sleep disturbances, mood changes, and the way women perceive life. Tiredness, anxiety, irritability, difficulty with concentration and depression are particularly common.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">But don&#8217;t be disheartened. Just because you have entered into menopause doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t have great sex and great orgasms.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">The best thing you can do for yourself is to learn all about the new menopausal body and how to gracefully live with it. Here are some tips:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul style=\"font-size: 15px;\">\r\n<li class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Be physically active as it boosts your energy levels, lifts up your mood and improves body image<\/span><\/li>\r\n<li class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Smoke less as nicotine can further reduce the blood supply to vagina<\/span><\/li>\r\n<li class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Have sex more often as it improves lubrication by increasing the blood supply to vaginal tissues during an orgasm<\/span><\/li>\r\n<li class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Allow time to get aroused during orgasm. Practice pelvic floor exercises.<\/span><\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">If you are feeling mild <a href=\"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/experiencing-itching-and-dryness-down-there\/\">vaginal dryness<\/a>, then use water based lubricants <span class=\"s1\">\u00a0<\/span>during intercourse. But if these lubricants aren&#8217;t helping then talk to your doctor and they might prescribe you with oestrogen creams\/tablets\/rings for local application after evaluating your history.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">The most important secret for leading a healthy and satisfactory sexual life is talking to your partner. That will not only boost your self confidence, but will also improve understanding about each other&#8217;s needs. Tell him your concerns, both emotional and physical. Explore different ways to connect physically and find your happiness. Speaking to a counsellor, when things aren\u2019t working out, is also a good idea.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">So if you educate and express yourself and talk about it more often, you can remain sexually active as long as you choose to. That&#8217;s important not only for your health but also to maintain a healthy intimate relationship with your special one.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p style=\"font-size: 15px;\">To understand menopause as a personal experience, read our article on <a class=\"ek-link\" href=\"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/menopause-a-personal-essay\/\">Menopause &#8211; A personal essay.<\/a><\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cI thought having reached this point in my life \u2014 empty nest, career success or retirement \u2014 my partner and&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":3717,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_editorskit_title_hidden":false,"_editorskit_reading_time":2,"_editorskit_typography_data":[],"_editorskit_blocks_typography":"","_editorskit_is_block_options_detached":false,"_editorskit_block_options_position":"{}","footnotes":""},"categories":[704,705,225,218],"tags":[261,42,260,324,595],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3712"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3712"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3712\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11512,"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3712\/revisions\/11512"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3717"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3712"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3712"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nuawoman.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3712"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}